How Far Would You Go?
Wednesday, February 13, 2008
Okay everyone! So..I'm officially on this (thanks to Sheena). Yay! I'm excited. So..more hypothetical questions of course. I already asked Marc and Dru this but the first is
- If a guy/girl has a history of cheating, many times or just once, do you give him/her a chance?
And my new question is..how far would you go to get some ass? haha..yeah I asked. What is your limit? A 2-hour drive? An hour-long ferry ride? Is there a specific distance where you say "That's just ridiculous!"? (okay..that was like 5 questions)
This is regarding someone who is single and available..not someone who is going to visit their significant other..
Numbers would be nice..
5 comments:
are you sure these are hypothetical???
1: She cheated once, and still I gave her a chance. so Yes, even tho I'd hate to find out they do it on me. you live, you learn.
2:how far do you live again? juuuuussst kidding. hmm, 2hr drive once a week [it better be good, too], any more than that the time goes lower and lower.
[marc]
hahaha. i <3 y'all
but word on question 2. depending on how much i'd wanna be in someone*, i'd drive maybe up to 3 hours.
*prerequisite of having done it before and loving it.
Question number 1, shit happens. I mean yeah, I probably need some time to get over it, but eventually everyone should be forgiven if they learned right from wrong. If the person sincerely said, I'm sorry and I believed them, I would give it another shot.
Question number 2, from personal experience, I almost traveled 3000 miles for her, but I had no time so I made her travel 3000 miles for me. Technically I traveled 1500 just to get some but there were some other stuff that made me wanna go. But honestly, I would go as far as I need to if I had the time and money.
1. If this is someone that I had just met and maybe started to "talk" to or "date" ; I would definately have my guard up but give him a chance. If it's someone that I've been with for a while and he cheats - I won't be tolerating that shit AT ALL. Unfortunately I had to learn not everyone deserves second chances the hard way w/my last relationship. But like Marc said, you live and you learn..[hopefully].
But then agaaain, I think it might depend on the situation. Based on people's values/what not.. such as marriage. Some people don't believe in divorce - you keep your vows to each other and work that shit out.
2. This question is funny to me because I don't really have an answer I guess? I know I definately wouldn't go as far as 3 hours, damn AB!. Hmmm.. I'm all trying to think of scenarios &shit. To be honest though, I'd definately pick a BC that's like 30 minutes away rather than one being further... buuuuut... I'd probably agree to the 2 hour max.. and it had better be legit! :)
Answer to Q1: the past is the past baby, show me how you are NOW. every experience is a learning experience. but if you fuck up on me, that's YOUR bad.
Answer to Q2: ummm... 100 miles meaning almost a 2 hour drive. I probably wouldn't go past a 3 hour drive though. ya diiiig?! I'm just keepin' it real. =)