tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-100453873915063727.post6019020232393328563..comments2009-02-07T19:09:09.955-08:00Comments on RealTalk: this "friend ladder" needs to be burnedABhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05197072396994972765noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-100453873915063727.post-51097556897445587712008-04-03T18:30:00.000-07:002008-04-03T18:30:00.000-07:00It's not that I want to.. [and I wouldn't mind if ...It's not that I <I>want</I> to.. [and I wouldn't mind if I was either].. was just curious on what the "criteria" was for being dubbed "one of the guys." <BR/><BR/>No big deal. :)Sheenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16181323071451744188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-100453873915063727.post-79194525251231268772008-04-02T00:26:00.000-07:002008-04-02T00:26:00.000-07:00hmm..If you wanna be considered "one of the guys,"...hmm..<BR/><BR/>If you wanna be considered "one of the guys," then you can have my approval...<BR/><BR/>anyone else?<BR/><BR/>[marc]Marc-Jameshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04671627751470323011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-100453873915063727.post-65411097603684889542008-04-01T21:40:00.000-07:002008-04-01T21:40:00.000-07:00I've been slackin on comments! Soo... apparently I...I've been slackin on comments! <BR/><BR/>Soo... apparently I'm <I>not</I> "one of the guys." <BR/><BR/>I know that Mikey's dubbed me that before but a couple days ago Marc & Andrew said that I'm not because nobody ever dubbed me that.. except for myself. Jenna explained it to me.. but I wanna hear why I'm not.. just out of curiosity. <BR/><BR/>Cuz I can hang & I'm a down ass bitch. Okay maybe not that last one, but you get me.Sheenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16181323071451744188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-100453873915063727.post-87288713559843763052008-03-19T03:01:00.000-07:002008-03-19T03:01:00.000-07:00my brain is lacking some fun after all this studyi...my brain is lacking some fun after all this studying. so here i go..<BR/><BR/>more things guys hate hearing:<BR/>- ..... . ... um. yeah...<BR/>- oh shi-*click* "hello?.."<BR/>- that would be awkward!<BR/>- GROSS!<BR/><BR/>You have some real good ones already. man i hate those "he's nice, but.." ARGH!!! if you have to use one of these, i suggest NONE of them. don't follow a positive with a negative.. you can't cover up a knife in the back with a band-aid. But i guess there really is no easier way, huh? life sucks sometimes. how about a lie?<BR/><I>"I'm actually seeing someone right now."</I><BR/><BR/><B>So what are we supposed to do in situations like this? how do you turn the befriended moment into the not-so-awkward moment?</B><BR/><BR/>Would it help if I said to her <I>"yes, i'd rather just be friends.. you ok with that? cmon, lets grab a bite real quick, we can talk about it."</I> I know that I wouldn't be able to just move on right away, so maybe helping her move on slowly by talking it over might ease that knife out a bit? for the girls, i think that if he's too much of a DOUCHE to do that for you, then he's not the guy you expect him to be. tension between friends is REAL AWKWARD.<BR/><BR/>COMMUNICATION is real talk.<BR/><BR/>[marc]<BR/><BR/>PS: good topic steph. you rock! like a boat.Marc-Jameshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04671627751470323011noreply@blogger.com